My mama's heart and cheekbones are the most beautiful creations of this earth. I was my grandmother's favorite and no one will ever argue differently.
I'm grateful for a community in rural Alabama that continues to water my seeds. I 'm forever indebted to my tribe in New Orleans who encouraged me to make this beautiful city my home. Most of all, I'm thankful that I listened to my heart and I know how it sounds when God places his hands on it.
It's a result of prayer and promise; an homage to the generations who stood before me. I'm my ancestors wildest dreams. I'm a premonition of a completed assignment. I grew up with high expectations and high praise. The interiors of my life were filled with women who worked, sacrificed and pushed me beyond my limits. My entire existence is gratitude to the 100th power.
It's my mama's favorite song. From the moment I was born, my entire family has carved a specific path that has allowed me to flourish beyond belief. My STEPS have truly been ordered and guided to a compelling realization in knowing that failing isn't an option. The stories that have been told from the "kitchen table" are both joyous and solemn. It was a time when injustice was a normality and hope was an urban myth. Listening to these stories and knowing the sacrifices of each family member reminds me that my existence is more than valuable. My cousin Kim's favorite quote is "I can show you better than I can tell you." In other words, just watch me. Our family is known for tough life and tough love moments. My mom grew up in a home with seven siblings. My dad, thirteen. Most of the siblings are women who have stood in the doorway and blocked my stupidity on several occasions. These same women have also met me at The Kitchen Table and taught me the art of cooking without measuring.
We don't measure in this family.
We don't measure success.
Most importantly, we don't measure love.